Disrupting Default: The Hidden Cost of Being ‘Nice’

Do you ever say ‘yes’ when you want to say ‘no?” Or bite your tongue and swallow the truth in order to keep the peace? That’s not being nice. That’s being conditioned.

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Disrupting Default: The Time Scarcity Myth

“I should be married by 30. I need to have kids by 35. I’m running out of time to change careers. I’m too old.” Sound familiar? If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking along these lines, you’re not alone. We’ve collectively bought into one of the most limiting beliefs of our

Hema Crockett August 20, 2025

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Disrupting Default: The Myth of “That’s Just How it is”

The Dream Killer We All Know Five simple words. Five words that have silently shaped more lives, crushed more aspirations, and perpetuated more suffering than perhaps any other phrase in human language: “That’s just how it is.” We’ve all heard it. We’ve all said it. And if we’re being honest,

Hema Crockett August 16, 2025

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Disrupting Default: Avoiding Confrontation in the Name of Comfort

Are You Really Keeping the Peace, or Just Postponing the Explosion? “I don’t want to rock the boat. I just want to keep the peace. It’s not worth the drama.” If these words sound familiar, you’re not alone. Most of us have convinced ourselves that avoiding confrontation is the noble

Hema Crockett August 5, 2025

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Disrupting Default: Why Your To Do List is Toxic

Are you managing your to-do list, or is it managing you? Your worth isn’t measured by how many boxes you check. It’s measured by the impact you make. Stop managing tasks. Start creating outcomes.

Hema Crockett July 29, 2025

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Disrupting Default: Unlearning Success

This week’s Disrupting Default challenges everything you thought you knew about success and achievement in today’s world. Are you tired of the traditional success narrative that’s been forced upon us? Key Insights: – Why conventional success metrics are outdated – The truth about work-life balance and sustainable success – How

Hema Crockett July 25, 2025

Recalibrate: A Profound Practice

The Complete Recalibrate Journey: From Fragmented to Fully Integrated – Your blueprint from unconscious conditioning to conscious, authentic living

There’s a moment when you realize you’ve been living someone else’s life. Maybe it hits you during a quiet morning, or perhaps it creeps in during another meeting where you find yourself saying what you think others want to hear rather than what you actually believe. You look around at

Hema Crockett July 22, 2025

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Disrupting Default: The Hidden Cost of Being ‘Nice’

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